Bridecentrism, Bridezillas, and "The Best Day of Your Life"

Bridecentrism, Bridezillas, and "The Best Day of Your Life"

The wedding industry didn’t grow to be worth $54 billion because Americans just love marriage so much. No way — marriage is cheap! We’re talking marriage license fees and gas money; you can get married for less than $100. The wedding industry grew to be so enormous because it is built on one big lie: a wedding is the best day of a woman’s life. Maybe it’s not a lie as much as it is a fantasy that we are socialized to embrace from day one. They slap that pink cap on your head, and next thing you know you’re living a Disney-themed childhood in which your career goals amount to being a glitter princess and a mommy to a brood of doll babies. But who will pay for your pink ball gowns and tea parties for your woodland friends? Oh, you know who: Prince Charming.

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Elopement Inspiration // Nine Couples Elope in France

Elopement Inspiration // Nine Couples Elope in France

This photo shoot was something I've been wanting to capture for so long. I'm passionate about the ability to elope, not worrying about the confinements of what is expected in the wedding industry — how simple yet utterly romantic this idea of eloping is and could be for so many. Secondly, I had been wondering: was it possible to wear something on that special day that didn't make you wonder how it was made and at what cost to people, animals and the planet? Was it possible to wear something luxurious and beautiful, yet still sustainable and organic?

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